Wednesday, January 13, 2016

Being Kind in a Reactive World

No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted. -Aesop

I have spent the last attempting to straighten out issues dealing with my Obamacare coverage through Blue Cross Blue Shield via the telephone. Something I noticed with each call is that the person answering the phone was rude at the beginning of the call. I kept a positive attitude throughout each conversation and each time the person on the other end of the call became nicer to me. It seems that everyone is reactive when dealing with others. Wouldn't the world be a much better place if we returned to common courtesy? I challenge everyone to spend a day, heck try an hour, being kind to everyone that you encounter be they familiar or strangers. If the people you encounter are rude, ignore it and be kind. We can change the world simply by doing this one thing. My challenge isn't anything new, It is Biblical yo:

You have heard that it was said, 'Eye for eye and tooth for tooth.'  But I tell you, Do not resist an evil person.  If someone strikes you on the right cheek, turn to him the other also.  And if someone wants to sue you and take your tunic, let him have your cloak as well.  If someone forces you to go one mile, go with him two miles." -Matthew 5:38-41

Works for me.

Monday, January 11, 2016

A Ragamuffin Looks at 40

I am less than six months away from my 50th birthday (6/9/16 for those of you who want to start your early gift shopping). My life has gone through many changes the last 10 years. I got a divorce, met and married my best friend Lesley, gained a step-daughter and welcomed a fifth child, Frankie, to the family. I am a blessed man. I wouldn't change a thing about my life.

During the last ten years I have been able to share Jesus with many, including many members of the Mormon faith to which I was an adherent. I have gained many friends with my involvement in the Celebrate Recovery ministry. This ministry has helped me to deal with the many hurts, habits and hangups that kept me from growing spiritually. My life remains a work in progress.

As I look forward to turning 50, I have decided to share on my observations on life, love and my savior Jesus . I don't feel that what I have to say is profound, but I do believe that I have much to offer. I believe that about most everyone else too. I hope you will join me for the ride.